A Dad in despair, considering suicide…who today is thriving and full of life and hope for his family.
Girma* and his family enrolled in Embracing Hope’s programs about 3 years ago. They came during a season when new families were being added because he was unable to work due to illness related to him being HIV positive. At that time he was having massive respiratory issues and suffering from joint pain that prevented him from working.
Economically, the family was living on a small amount of income that Kidus* Mom was able to make washing clothing. At that point, Kidus’ Mom was making 450 ETB month (less than $20) which could not even feed one of their family members, let alone pay rent and other household needs. Girma was staying at home to watch after Kidus. Medical follow up and treatment was unthinkable for Girma even though he knew he was HIV positive. His health was deteriorating and without intervention Kidus would soon lose his father.
EHE Staff intervened and started providing Girma with medical treatment and supplementary food support which helped him to recover and get physical strength. The Family also was provided with other supports such as; clothing, mattress, blankets, sheets, pillows, and hygiene materials. As Girma regained his health, he started working as a daily laborer and also as a part time guard. Within little time he was earning 1,000 ETB per month in addition to his wife’s income.
Once Kidus was registered in the project, he stayed in the day care center every day. With the provision of nutrition 4 times per day, early childhood support and social relations in a loving and caring environment, he started to thrive, too. Today Kidus is in the Embracing Hope School and he continues to receive all the supports EHE provides.
Today, Girma has saved 5,000 ETB in the bank and is providing food and housing for his family. His health is good and he loves to work. He also has hope of a better life because of EHE’s support- counseling, prayer, and supplementary food support.
He told our staff that he had lost hope when he was told he was HIV positive, and thought about committing suicide by throwing himself off of a cliff or into the river. But now he is full of hope. He has learned to read and write through EHE’s Adult education and he leads a happy life with his wife and children. He also has a plan to one day have his own house, and help his children to continue their education.
All it took was a very simple intervention to help a Dad in despair to embrace hope in all areas of life. Thank you for investing in life changes that God gives us the privilege of partnering in.
*Names have been changed to protect the identity of this family.
Yehsi* and her husband were a loving family that were just getting by. But, like so many families that Embracing Hope serves, a crisis changed the entire landscape of their family. Along the way Yeshi became very sick and needed to be hospitalized. This is when it was discovered that both she and her husband were HIV positive.
Shortly after her discharge, AIDS claimed her husband’s life and life for her family became much more difficult. Fortunately there were people around Yeshi who helped to counsel and support her, as well as made sure that she was receiving medical treatment. Slowly, she became healthy enough to start back to work as a daily laborer.
One day Yeshi met a co-worker who was also HIV positive. Within a short amount of time they got married. This is when Yeshi got pregnant with her second child Hana. When Hana was just 7 months old, Yeshi’s new husband abandoned the family and left her unable to feed and support her children.
This is when Embracing Hope staff intervened for Yeshi’s family. At that time they were in despair and malnourished. Yeshi was trying to wash clothing to feed her family, but was not making it. There also was a cloud hanging over the family as conflicting HIV results had been reported about Hana and it was believed that she might be HIV positive, too.
Hana was accepted into our Day Care where she had a safe, caring and loving place to learn. She received daily nutrition as well as Early Childhood Education and healthcare. Yeshi received the freedom to go to work in addition to health care, basic need provision, house rent assistance, ongoing HIV counseling and spiritual counseling. She also started receiving a special monthly stipend from Embracing Hope to buy eggs, milk and meat to help her to stay healthy while fighting HIV.
Today, life is much different for this family. Yeshi is working and is able to provide food for her family as well as pay their house rent. Hana is in the Embracing Hope School and is thriving there. After a number of tests, it also was determined that Hana is HIV Negative, which is a huge reason for celebration for everyone!!
Yeshi also has been able to save some money and has almost 5,000 ETB now saved in a savings account. This has given her great hope for the future.
And best of all, this family also has chosen to follow Jesus. They are born again, love God, and attend church.
Yeshi stated that if they had not received support from EHE she would not have been able to survive and her children would likely be orphans and hopeless.
Thank you on behalf of this family for your great and unconditional support to save their lives. Your support helped to restore the dignity and hope of Yeshi and her children.
*Names have been changed to protect the identity of this family.
As we traveled across North America this past summer, what made it so special were the many wonderful people we met along the way. And the hospitality they showed us was beyond the imagination!
To open your home to an invasion like the Shannon family takes a special kind of person. It means decreased privacy, shuffling of space and the practical matter of feeding more mouths. But, people did it night after night.
I believe it stands out as being out of the ordinary to us because hospitality for many of us in the current day is a lost practice. The hospitality industry means that many of us turn first to a hotel room rather than opening our homes.
As those on the receiving end of hospitality again and again, it reminded us of the vital place of hospitality in New Testament times. Consider some ways the Bible spoke about the culture of hospitality that was expected in the 1st Century:
- Luke 9:3. “When Jesus had called the Twelve together, he gave them power and authority to drive out all demons and to cure diseases, and he sent them out to proclaim the kingdom of God and to heal the sick. He told them: ‘Take nothing for the journey – no staff, no bag, no bread, no money, no extra shirt. Whatever house you enter, stay there until you leave that town…’” The 12 were dependent on hospitality.
2. Luke 11:5 -6. In the midst of one of Jesus’ parables on prayer we see the vital nature of hospitality, “Suppose you have a friend, and you go to him at midnight and say, ‘Friend, lend me three loaves of bread; a friend of mine on a journey has come to me, and I have no food to offer him.’” The expectation was that this man would have food to give proper hospitality to the friend on a journey. And if not, then his neighbor might come to his rescue to preserve his neighbor’s honor.
3. Luke 10:38. “As Jesus and his disciples were on their way, he came to a village where a woman named Martha opened her home to him.”
4. Again and again we see it in the Early Church through Acts. In Acts 16 we read about Lydia, “When she and the members of her household were baptized, she invited us to her home.” Or Acts 21:8, “Leaving the next day, we reached Caesarea and stayed at the house of Philip the evangelist, one of the Seven.” And in Acts 28 we see it in verse 2, “The islanders showed us unusual kindness. They built a fire and welcomed us all because it was raining and cold,” as well as in verse 7, “There was an estate nearby that belonged to Publius…He welcomed us to his home and showed us generous hospitality for three days.”
5. And then we also find various instructions throughout the New Testament about how to practice hospitality. In 1 Timothy 5:10, a widow was expected to be well known for her good deeds, including hospitality. But, also in the list of Elder’s requirements in Titus 1:8 is the expectation that a potential Elder was hospitable. In Romans 12:13, we read, ‘Share with the Lord’s people who are in need. Practice hospitality.” And a strong word in 1 Peter 4:9, “Offer hospitality to one another without grumbling.” And of course, there is Hebrews 13:2, “Do not forget to show hospitality to strangers, for by so doing some people have shown hospitality to angels without knowing it.”
By the way, I’m not inferring that our crew is anywhere close to angels in that last verse. 🙂
While it is Biblical, it seems that the hard part of these verses is found in the practical.
Here are some marks of great hospitality that we experienced along the way. You might be surprised by what stood out to us.
Marks of Great Hospitality as we experienced it.
- Mi Casa, su Casa. Any time anyone said to us, “Make yourselves at home,” that was a breath of fresh air. It never had anything to do with the quality of the home or the bigness or smallness of that home. Rather, a simple invitation made a huge difference.
2. Simplicity. When hosts made simple food or even said, “Here it is, help yourself,” it made us breathe a breath of relief. Hospitality is not about breaking our necks or spending our lives in the kitchen to impress…rather a simplicity of sharing warms the heart.
3. Sharing Life. We loved how people weren’t just giving us housing and food like a boarder. Rather, we sat around and shared life. We listened to stories and told our own. We shared our joys and our concerns. We prayed together and shared together knowing that God was knitting our lives together in a special way.
4. Power of Prayer. We had a number of settings where hosts prayed deep prayers. They spoke out words of knowledge and prayers of encouragement over us. And we had the privilege of praying for some of them, too. That was a special gift…again and again.
5. The Art of Service. The way folks served us was remarkable. But what it spoke to us was the love of Jesus. They chose to serve because they follow the Master Servant. They saw their houses and food and pools and toys as gifts given by God. So, they freely shared with other believers. They served out of what The Lord had put in them and it was beautiful.
The practice of hospitality is still alive and well among Jesus followers. And we were the beneficiaries of gift after gift as a result. Thank you to you heroes of hospitality. We appreciate the ways you served our family so well…giving off the fragrance of Christ again and again.